Should I Stay or Should I go?
Most betrayed spouses wrestle with the heart-wrenching question: Should I stay or should I go? The truth is—there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. This webinar will not pressure you toward a decision, but instead will guide you through the steps of stabilization, discernment, and healing so you can move forward with clarity rather than survival-mode reactivity.
By the end of this course, you’ll:
Understand why decisions made in trauma survival mode often backfire.
Learn how to stabilize your nervous system and reclaim emotional safety before deciding.
Identify red flags that point to ongoing betrayal or abuse.
Recognize signs of genuine repentance versus shallow change.
Explore how faith, healing, and wise support can ground your decision-making.
Discover how both staying and leaving can be faithful choices aligned with God’s love and wisdom.
This isn’t about rushing to an answer. It’s about creating space for truth, safety, and God’s guidance as you discern your path.
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Should I Stay or Should I go?
Most betrayed spouses wrestle with the heart-wrenching question: Should I stay or should I go? The truth is—there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. This webinar will not pressure you toward a decision, but instead will guide you through the steps of stabilization, discernment, and healing so you can move forward with clarity rather than survival-mode reactivity.
Most betrayed spouses wrestle with the heart-wrenching question: Should I stay or should I go? The truth is—there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. This webinar will not pressure you toward a decision, but instead will guide you through the steps of stabilization, discernment, and healing so you can move forward with clarity rather than survival-mode reactivity.
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Meet your instructor
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Meet your instructor ✳
Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT
I’m Tesa Saulmon—wife, mom, therapist, and most importantly, a child of God. I’m also a wounded healer, which means I don’t just bring professional expertise to this work—I bring lived experience, too.
As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I specialize in helping betrayed spouses, addicted partners, and couples walk through the devastating impact of betrayal and find a path toward healing. My work is deeply trauma-informed and faith-integrated. That means I honor the reality of your pain, help you stabilize in the chaos, and always point you back to the God who sees you, loves you, and will never leave you.
I know how overwhelming it can feel to face choices you never wanted, especially in the aftermath of betrayal. That’s why I create resources like this webinar—to give you clarity, safety, and hope while reminding you that you don’t have to rush your decision, and you don’t have to walk this journey alone.
Whether you choose to stay, go, or wait for more clarity, I want you to know this: You are still chosen. Still loved. And still held by a faithful God.