Intimate Betrayal, Grief & Mourning After Disclosure Support Group

For Betrayed Spouses Who Now Have the Full Truth… and Still Feel Lost

Full therapeutic disclosure can bring clarity—but it can also bring a deeper kind of grief.

Because once you finally know the truth, your body and heart often begin grieving what you thought your life was:

  • the marriage you believed you had

  • the safety you assumed was real

  • the intimacy you trusted

  • the future you planned

And that grief can feel relentless.

You Don’t Need to “Get Over It”

Grief is not weakness.
Grief is the evidence of love, meaning, and loss.

This group is your space to process what happened with support, wisdom, and skills—so your pain stops running the show.

Application for Women’s Betrayal Trauma Support Group

DO NOT fill out an application for your spouse. Each person must fill out his/her own application.

A season where you are watching for fruit —- Rebuilding from the Inside Out | Rebuilding with Wisdom | Hope, Held Carefully

If you are post-disclosure and your husband is actively doing the work, but your heart is still cautious, this group is for you.

Watching for Fruit is a betrayal trauma recovery group for women who are healing inside a marriage where change is beginning to show, but trust has not yet been restored. You may want restoration, yet feel guarded. You may see effort and still feel afraid. You may believe healing is possible, while needing time, boundaries, and discernment.

This group honors hope without pressure.

It is designed for women who have completed a full therapeutic disclosure and are now navigating what it means to rebuild from the inside out, slowly, wisely, and without self-abandonment.

Here, we focus on:

  • Healing after disclosure without rushing trust

  • Grieving losses while staying engaged in the marriage

  • Learning how to watch behavior, not promises

  • Rebuilding safety, boundaries, and emotional connection

  • Holding hope and discernment at the same time

  • Strengthening your sense of self while discerning restoration

This group is not about convincing you to stay or pushing reconciliation. It is about helping you remain grounded, emotionally honest, and spiritually anchored while you assess whether lasting change is taking root.

You will be surrounded by women who understand what it means to rebuild carefully, to protect their hearts while staying open to what may still grow.

If your husband is in recovery, disclosure is complete, and you are seeking support for wise, trauma-informed marriage healing, this group offers a steady, compassionate place to continue your journey.

“These questions aren’t about qualifying or disqualifying you. They help us place you in the group that will best support your heart and nervous system right now.”