Navigating Stuckness After Infidelity: Coping Strategies for Betrayed Spouses
You want to move forward, but no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to get past what happened. The memories keep replaying. The “why” questions never end. The pressure to reconcile feels overwhelming, yet your heart still feels broken.
If this sounds familiar, you are not weak—you are experiencing trauma.
In this powerful webinar, Tesa Saulmon, LMHC, CSAT, a licensed therapist specializing in betrayal trauma and infidelity recovery, will guide you through:
Why you feel stuck after betrayal—and why it’s not your fault.
What keeps you paralyzed—from incomplete truth, to unprocessed grief, to perfectionism.
Practical ways to get unstuck—including reclaiming agency, grieving what was lost, and shifting from “why” to “what now.”
Faith-centered encouragement—God doesn’t rush your healing. Jesus understands betrayal and walks with you in your pain.
You’ll walk away with:
- Reflection questions to help you uncover what’s really keeping you stuck.
-Tools to begin loosening the grip of betrayal trauma.
- A renewed sense of hope that your story isn’t over.
Stuckness is a signal, not a sentence.
This webinar will help you breathe again, take small steps forward, and trust that you are not alone in your healing journey.
👉 Begin moving from “I can’t get past this” to “I am healing.”
Meet your instructor
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Meet your instructor ✳
Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT
Hello, I'm Tesa Saulmon, and I am deeply honored to be part of your journey toward healing and transformation. I understand that reaching out for help, especially in areas as sensitive as infidelity, sexual trauma, betrayal, addiction, and substance use, requires immense courage. You're not alone in this—I've walked a similar path and know how challenging it can be.
My own life has been marked by trials that have given me firsthand insight into the pain and complexities associated with these issues. I have wrestled with the turbulence of betrayal and faced the shadows of trauma. Addictions are close to my heart because my parents are both recovering addicts. These experiences have not only shaped me but have also fueled my passion for helping others navigate their own journeys toward recovery and wholeness.
In my practice, I strive to create a safe, nurturing environment where you can express your deepest fears, struggles, and hopes without judgment. At the same time, I use directness to challenge your thoughts when you are struggling with denial or when a different perspective may be helpful. Together, we will explore the root causes behind these challenges and work towards reclaiming your life and finding peace, after stabilizing any crisis that may be occurring.
My approach to therapy is compassionate and holistic, drawing on a blend of therapeutic techniques tailored to meet your unique needs. Whether it's working through the aftermath of infidelity, addressing the weight of sexual trauma, or overcoming addiction, I want you to know that healing is possible. It's a process that requires willingness, patience, self-compassion, and support, and I'm here to walk alongside you every step of the way.