You are doing the work. You’ve apologized. You’re trying.
But she still gets triggered. A look, a phrase, a commercial, a date on the calendar, and suddenly, she’s in pain again.
You’re left wondering:
“When will she finally trust me again?”
“Why can’t she see how hard I’m trying?”
“Is she ever going to forgive me?”
Let me give you the answer: her triggers aren’t proof that she hasn’t chosen to forgive you.
They’re signs of the trauma your betrayal caused, and understanding them is key to rebuilding trust, safety, and connection.
In this live training, you’ll learn:
What’s actually happening in her brain and body when she gets triggered
Why logic and reassurance often make things worse (and what helps instead)
The crucial difference between forgiveness and safety
How to respond to her pain without defensiveness or shutdown
How understanding triggers can accelerate true healing for both of you
You’ll Walk Away With:
Clear language to help you navigate moments of emotional intensity
Practical tools to rebuild safety and trust
Hope that healing is possible, even after betrayal
You are doing the work. You’ve apologized. You’re trying.
But she still gets triggered. A look, a phrase, a commercial, a date on the calendar, and suddenly, she’s in pain again.
You’re left wondering:
“When will she finally trust me again?”
“Why can’t she see how hard I’m trying?”
“Is she ever going to forgive me?”
Let me give you the answer: her triggers aren’t proof that she hasn’t chosen to forgive you.
They’re signs of the trauma your betrayal caused, and understanding them is key to rebuilding trust, safety, and connection.
In this live training, you’ll learn:
What’s actually happening in her brain and body when she gets triggered
Why logic and reassurance often make things worse (and what helps instead)
The crucial difference between forgiveness and safety
How to respond to her pain without defensiveness or shutdown
How understanding triggers can accelerate true healing for both of you
You’ll Walk Away With:
Clear language to help you navigate moments of emotional intensity
Practical tools to rebuild safety and trust
Hope that healing is possible, even after betrayal
